Its Definition
As the article says, self-expression is “the action of expressing yourself.” There are many different ways to express yourself (like what you wear, the way you talk, the expressions on your face, the way you do things, and your actions) as long as you stay true to who you really are. This may seem simple to some, but it’s really not. People express themselves in ways they believe they should to fit in with other people’s expectations. Doing the opposite of this, which is following your own expectations, is what self-expression truly is.
Its Importance To Me
Self expression is very important because it gives me a sense of fulfillment in life, it leads me to the people who care about me, and it helps me love myself. If I can’t be myself then it would feel like I’m missing something in my life. Being different from other people is what makes me who I am. Those differences can help me travel far in life and without them I would feel useless. Albert Einstein was always viewed as weird and disrespectful when he was a child, but he grew up to be someone very important for our knowledge we have today. (I’m not comparing myself to him lol. Just making a point.) Furthermore, I should not care about what other people think because they do not know who I really am. It will just lead me to pain and disappointment. The atmosphere of people I put myself in affects my life. If they truly love me, they will support me and not discourage me. A true friend will love the way I am even with my flaws. Finally, self expression effects our self love. I have to be honest with myself and love myself, so I won’t be afraid to show my true colors. Trying to be someone else, only stresses me out and makes me frustrated with myself. The true way to be happy is to be happy as I am. Happiness is everyone’s goal in life. Sooner or later, my life will end and I don’t want to live it as someone I know I am not.
My Personal Experiences
In the 7th grade I moved to Zachary from Lafayette. When I came here, everyone knew people and everything was different than where I came from. It still is. People were very judgmental and I never felt like I fitted in. I had different friends that came and went but none of them really matched my personality. I absolutely hated my middle school years. I always felt like I had to meet everyone’s expectations or else they would think I’m weird and that they would not want to be my friend. I felt like this for a really long time and begged my mom for us to move back to my family and friends in Lafayette. I basically had to start all over and it was really scary. Now, I’ve lived in Zachary for almost 5 years. Over time, I realized that I can’t change myself for other people just to fit in. It’s like I was erasing who I am. Eventually I found caring friends that love me for who I am inside and out. I showed them who I was without insecurities and I know that they would never want to change me. Although I still miss my family and friends in Lafayette, over time I’ve begun to accept that I’m here now and I’m actually glad that I am.
This realization helped me value the one’s I really care about. I would never want to make people feel the way I felt when I moved here because I know how painful it can feel. That’s why many people view me as nice and caring because I hate being mean to someone when I know how it feels to be left out or misunderstood. At the same time, I will always stand up for someone I love if someone treats them with disrespect.
Song
“Titanium” by David Guetta featuring Sia
Quote
“The journey of self-discovery is the most important journey we can take”
De la Huerta